I don’t care who you are – when you finally realize that the person you just ended a relationship with was your “rebound” it makes you feel trashy inside.
Don’t you think “rebound periods” are subjective? I consider the first person you date after a breakup to be a “rebound” regardless of how long it takes to meet that person – 2 days, 3 months, 20 years. Anyone else have more wisdom they can drop on this subject?
There’s a belief among chicks that however long you date somebody is how long it will take you to get over him. Riding that concept, I’d say that the rebound period is a function of the duration of the original relationship. The first person you date is a rebound unless you waited longer than the previous relationship, in which case you are rebound free. I would posit that for any meaningful relationship, the “waiting” strategy is much less viable than the “get the inevitable rebound out of the way” strategy.
That “equal time” is pretty effective, for the most part. Still, I think that 3 months wouldn’t be a bad period of time for the next date not to be a rebound.
After 3 months, that’s a rebound? :P Weird.
What’s the appropriate time limit on rebounds?
I guess I should ask what’s the “typical” time limit on rebounds? I was just basing this comic on personal experience.
Is Reese wearing a “Five Iron Frenzy” hoodie?!
He sure is. :)
Maybe 20 years counts as a sufficient rebound period
Don’t you think “rebound periods” are subjective? I consider the first person you date after a breakup to be a “rebound” regardless of how long it takes to meet that person – 2 days, 3 months, 20 years. Anyone else have more wisdom they can drop on this subject?
There’s a belief among chicks that however long you date somebody is how long it will take you to get over him. Riding that concept, I’d say that the rebound period is a function of the duration of the original relationship. The first person you date is a rebound unless you waited longer than the previous relationship, in which case you are rebound free. I would posit that for any meaningful relationship, the “waiting” strategy is much less viable than the “get the inevitable rebound out of the way” strategy.
Interesting theory . . .
That “equal time” is pretty effective, for the most part. Still, I think that 3 months wouldn’t be a bad period of time for the next date not to be a rebound.
Whenever I hear about rebounds, I can’t help but think about Michael Scott, when he dated the waitress from Benihana.
Classic episode, and it’s seasonal as well. Two points for DJ.
I feel sorry for any girl who IS the rebound. Hurting is bound to happen. Don’t let Max be that jerk, Wes!
We’ll have to see what happens. :)
I know some people who have married their rebound… must’ve been a killer bounce.